Waxing Before Or After Shower How Can You Loosen Up Hairs Before Waxing?

How can you loosen up hairs before waxing? - waxing before or after shower

I started growing, and the hair is not leaving a kind of stubborn and, even after waxing a few times in the region. Is it possible to soften the hair to grow before it easier to be? [And I'm wrong, because most of them go ... but there are some that are not easy.]